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Just curious as to people's preferences as due to my work schedule I do a bit of both I.e watching when I am around and hearing about it when I'm not

Watching can be sooooo exciting. And hearing about the details afterwards can make the mind imagine so much more that can be real

It is not allowed to watch since i am in regression into babyhood - but great to hear it

little Benita

The good thing about watching is that you're available for clean up duties, both on her and him. Being wanked off as she tells you the details of what they did together is fun too so I voted for a bit of both.

Thebestdays1 wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 24, 2024 2:41 am

The good thing about watching is that you're available for clean up duties, both on her and him. Being wanked off as she tells you the details of what they did together is fun too so I voted for a bit of both.

Like me.

I picked a lil of both. Watching is incredible...but so is sitting at home wondering what's going on and finding out later. Plus solo play gives my wife and her bulls to concentrate 100% on each other and not worry about me Watching

I love watching and equally exciting is listening from outside the room.
I do love the anguish of sitting at home alone and not knowing what's happening when she's out and about.

C'mon...Nothing beats watching her eyes roll back, hearing her moans, watching him tease her with his cock, seeing it split her pussy wide open, taking vids you can watch over and over.

I never understood how hearing details, which are the same details for each encounter, could ever match being there.

After years of sharing the fantasy with my wife. Recently she asked how would it work? Would I be there to watch or her out alone with a guy? I said her out alone hoping that was best easiest answer to get her to finally do it. To my surprise she said she wanted me there to watch. Still hasn’t happened.
I have often wondered what would be hotter for me. Her coming home surprising me she just got laid. Or a whole scene with me in panties on my knees watching her taken by another man?
Both seem off the charts hot.

Tryagain wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 24, 2024 7:02 am

I never understood how hearing details, which are the same details for each encounter, could ever match being there.

Imagination.

Things left to the imagination can be even more erotic than the things you can see.

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being there too - and I'm really glad I've been able to do that, sometimes. But, not being there is a little bit hotter for me. I enjoy a bit of the proverbial 'angst'.

My clear preference is to watch, although I've only done it three times. Yet I'm in complete accord with Leggysman's sense of the rich complexity of angst mixed with imagination when it takes place outside of my immediate presence. So I checked the box for both.

If both options are available hands down will watch!!!! That being said its a personal choice. My reasoning is two fold, my wife is not that expressive in terms of getting all details n not missing any and second (more imp) would you rather watch porn or hear about it LOL .....on a serious note....the facial expressions, sounds, moans just cannot be recreated verbally.
TBH she's not played alone yet, I have been in the same room or around (moving in n out of the room) and joined her the guy, we are discussing a possibility of her playing alone with a guy I trust and she's comfortable with but nothing has been fixed so far.

The question did say "prefer".

So I voted "watch".

I actually get a bit of both, but 'watching' wins every time.
And, believe me, I've got a good imagination.

When i hear her scream, then i know now she get inseminated

little Benita

Watching is great but, there's some things that are exciting about hearing about it later too. Some things you wouldn't notice if you were watching. Like, my wife will tell me when she first started getting wet. When she felt she needed his cock inside her. When I'm watching, I can see the big orgasms she has but she'll tell me about all the little ones she had too. She'll tell me things that she'll notice that i wouldn't. Like if she could feel that he was hard right through his pants. When he was fingering her under her dress, was it two or three fingers. When he was making small talk in the beginning, was she thinking "Shut up and just fuck me" ..... which has happened. LOL All things i wouldn't notice if I was there.

I have done both but now only hear about it. I used to really enjoy watching but on the odd occassion she would see someone without me the intensity of not watching but knowing she is with him was incredible. So then we started having me just hear about it. It works wonderfully for us. I still get as nervous as I did the first time she was with someone in a swap and find it so erotic that she is out with someone, in their bed but coming home to me. I love that the sensation - mental and physical hasn't gone away after 16 years of her playing solo.

But as we know in this lifestyle, every couple has to find their own path, so hope you enjoy whatever you chose!

Although I loved watching I preferred listening; we would get a motel room with two beds and they would be in one bed and I in the other. When they had sex it was explicit but when they thought I was asleep they would whisper and make love, which was a mind blowing turn on

Watch/participate is great and so is hearing about some fun she had afterwards especially if it is a surprise to me or at least was not 100% sure she was going to.

She even had one adventure I did not find out about fir two years because she was afraid to tell me and also liked having a secret. No worries though when I found out my reaction was an erection

I was very keen to watch until a few days back, but after watching my wife roughed up in bed by another man i've made decision of hearing of the future encounters by Nikki only. I think handling the sight is not for me.

There is a very hot middle ground that is just listening! You're available if needed but they have a sense of privacy. It also allows silky seconds immediately, cleaning possibilities, and a greater measure of safety ...

CuckedbyNikki wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 26, 2024 4:45 am

I was very keen to watch until a few days back, but after watching my wife roughed up in bed by another man i've made decision of hearing of the future encounters by Nikki only. I think handling the sight is not for me.

I wonder how many men here who would rather hear about things rather than witness them are too bothered by the sight as opposed to preferring to use their imagination only? You know…watching them clawing at each other as they make out, seeing her removing his underwear and watching a big fat cock spring right out while you gawk at them handling your semi soft small cock. And see her pussy split wide open by him and hearing her moan about how good his cock feels. And see her ride him until she cums and squirts all over him.

So, can you handle that?

Tryagain wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 26, 2024 5:46 am

CuckedbyNikki wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 26, 2024 4:45 am

I was very keen to watch until a few days back, but after watching my wife roughed up in bed by another man i've made decision of hearing of the future encounters by Nikki only. I think handling the sight is not for me.

I wonder how many men here who would rather hear about things rather than witness them are too bothered by the sight as opposed to preferring to use their imagination only? You know…watching them clawing at each other as they make out, seeing her removing his underwear and watching a big fat cock spring right out while you gawk at them handling your semi soft small cock. And see her pussy split wide open by him and hearing her moan about how good his cock feels. And see her ride him until she cums and squirts all over him.

So, can you handle that?

Yeah, that's such a good point.
I don't think I could handle it as much as the idea of being there excites me.

I know when she told me she had done it, and I thought I was reclaiming her, it was one of the hottest things I experienced.

I think if she ever really decides to do it I would rather hear about it than risk not be able to handle it or enjoy it being there.

I love hearing about it as Sonja's face lights up or goes sultry and her voice sometimes deepens. Now that she knows I find her relationship arousing she is pretty free with extolling her boytoy

I answered a bit of both. Sitting at home knowing she's out with another man and probably getting screwed keeps me constantly agitated and sexually on edge for an extended period of time which is exquisite torture. My current wife is not a guaranteed lay when she goes on a date, so that uncertainty adds to my angst.

I felt the same way with my girlfriend, although I knew for sure she was getting fucked before she came home. When I finally got to watch her fucked, it was a different experience, but it got me so hard I thought my cock would explode, and that I would cum without even touching myself. At that time I hadn't made her cum through intercourse, so watching her writhing in the throes of passion under his assault completely fulfilled my need to be cuckolded.

Watching and hearing about it are two different experiences, both powerful in their own unique way. And then there's listening or not knowing about it until sometimes after the fact.

I like them all and probably don't have a preference. I suppose I like diversity above all else. If all of my hot cutie with a booty's dates were the same I'd probably get bored. I like changing things up!