| So, my relationship has ended. I am now seeking a fresh start in my love life. So, what's the best way to confess my feelings? Need only serious suggestions. If you wanna troll or act foolish, kindly get out. |
| the best way is probably to be platonic friends first |
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CandleJakk said: oooooh nooooo :(((So, my relationship has ended. when i saw the title i thought you were getting married to your (now ex) gf what a sad plot twist |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
kawaiiyuris said: CandleJakk said: oooooh nooooo :(((So, my relationship has ended. when i saw the title i thought you were getting married to your (now ex) gf what a sad plot twist In God I Trust and Believe, for he has Created my Path and Opportunity for my Success once Again. |
| Something you think up yourself. What is romantic about doing something some stranger on a forum said? |
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traed said: Something you think up yourself. What is romantic about doing something some stranger on a forum said? I know. I am just asking for extra opinions. |
Aww :( I thought you were ready to pair up with your partner. |
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CandleJakk said: traed said: Something you think up yourself. What is romantic about doing something some stranger on a forum said? I know. I am just asking for extra opinions. General stuff doesnt quite fit everyone. Probably best if it is something that directly relates the person in some way. Something that involves some of their favourite things. |
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traed said: General stuff doesnt quite fit everyone. Probably best if it is something that directly relates the person in some way. Something that involves some of their favourite things. Girls understand each other quite well. |
CandleJakk said: dude, he's right.traed said: General stuff doesnt quite fit everyone. Probably best if it is something that directly relates the person in some way. Something that involves some of their favourite things. Girls understand each other quite well. the literal only advice that i think is universal is "don't be creepy or weird about it", everything else depends on the individual girl |
deadoptimist said: Though I think shit-flinging should also have standards - no personal, no behind the scenes. |
| In all seriousness, show her your dick. That's how I won over @SnugglyWhuggly |
 I love Christine "If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours. He will put some things behind, will pass an invisible boundary; In proportion as he simplifies his life, the laws of the universe will appear less complex, and solitude will not be solitude, nor poverty poverty, nor weakness weakness." - Henry David Thoreau |
| Don't get married, there is no benefit to it in the 21st century for a male to get married. What you should be doing is dating and fucking as many girls as you can and see if you can stand one of them and then go to the next level with her, but not if she gives up her vagina easily because then she is a whore. |
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| It depends on who the girl is, right? Along with her personal preferences. I read a story about a girl who LOVED Harry Potter, and her fiance got a HP book and carved it so that one day, while she was reading, she saw a ring inside. It was so cute. But, stuff like that would only work if the girl in question actually liked reading lol. P.S: This was the book btw and it's so sweet >,< |
| Show her your anime collection. She'd want to marry you at that exact moment. |
 Ｓｗｅｅｔ♥I guess, as long as I have life, all I can do is fight with all my might. |
| You don't, that's fucking awkward. Instead you poke holes into a condom and let things do their things. |
 NasalShark said: I'd love to squeeze your nipples until they look like a purple slushie, Senpai. |
| Too general, dude. Are you confessing to someone you already know or someone you just met? Are you confessing love or like? Anyway, confessions are overrated and over-complicated. Not really how you get a girl. To confess just be straight forward. "I want to kiss you" "I'm attracted to you" "I think you're beautiful", something like that. But the key is don't make it a separate event. It puts too much pressure on you and the girl. The do or die moment you create might turn a "maybe" into a "no". Start a conversation, then LISTEN, but be the lead of the conversation by asking questions. Don't let her ramble too much without directing the conversation with another question. Then randomly drop one of the lines above. Whether she says no, or hesitates, quickly move the conversation along like it's no big deal to you how she answers. And if she says yes or some other positive response, don't be like "Awesome!" Have some self-respect. Maybe it is awesome, and maybe she is awesome, but so are you so act like it. The biggest mistake nerdy guys make (not judging, but you do have an account on MAL, soooo...) is that they present themselves like they're asking for something they aren't worthy of. Respect the girl (if you don't, you're not going to get very far, unless she's the kind of girl that likes that, but those girls are dirty or crazy or dirty and crazy and not the good kind of dirty and crazy. The itchy burning kind of dirty and the stabby, smashy kind of crazy) but respect yourself first. |
| I understand the feeling, but it usually just backfires. now I am reminding to just ask them out, and don't stress out too much about it. that way you can cut the chord on your feelings if it goes south and it won't strangle you to death. or make you wish you were dead. |
| Propose to her with a body pillow. Preferably a yaoi one. |
| well you talk to her and then you end up kissing her, if you overthink this you may end up fucking things up, just let it flow. |
| pray that she'll ask you out first :^) |
ThrashMatto said: In all seriousness, show her your dick. That's how I won over @SnugglyWhuggly Alright. Sending her dick pics. What angles does she prefer? Sorry Matt, you just dug your own grave. @OP. If you're anywhere near as classy as I am, you would bring her a box, and within that box will be a dog collar. Whatever her reaction, just forcefully put the collar around her neck and drag her to wherever you want your date to happen. This technique, I say confidently, has never failed. |
Shaheen- said: If you're anywhere near as classy as I am, you would bring her a box, and within that box will be a dog collar. Whatever her reaction, just forcefully put the collar around her neck and drag her to wherever you want your date to happen. This technique, I say confidently, has never failed. that would work on me, but im a lost cause already ^^ |
Shaheen- said: If you're anywhere near as classy as I am, you would bring her a box, and within that box will be a dog collar. Whatever her reaction, just forcefully put the collar around her neck and drag her to wherever you want your date to happen. This technique, I say confidently, has never failed. bondu chup kar.......Mera lan sakht ah |
| Just don't put the ring in food. It won't be very romantic if she eats the ring and you have to dig through her poop until you find it. |
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| This: Just amazing, seriously. Years later and it's still probably the most heartwarming fanwork I've seen based on a video game. Hell he was even able to get Ellen McLain herself involved in the project and record new lines just for the sake of the proposal |
HaXXspettenMay 20, 2016 2:20 AM
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| If you wanna troll or act foolish, kindly get out. |
| I have no tips right now, but good luck. |
| Now I see the secret of the making of the best persons. It is to grow in the open air and to eat and sleep with the earth. -Walt Whitman A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects. -Robert A. Heinlein |
| The question here is, do you really even have anyone to "confess" to? I'll be blunt, it seems a bit odd that you've apparently just had a relationship end, and are already seeking a new one. People that are genuinely in love don't do this, so something tells me you either foresaw your relationship ending for whatever reason, or you get into relationships for reasons other than mutual feelings for one another (or perhaps both). If you're just looking for a girl to bang, it shouldn't be too hard if you hang around night clubs or bars, or other places where people seek "casual sex". And if you're looking for something more than just a one night stand, it shouldn't be too hard to become routine fuck buddies with someone who's seeking the same thing. |
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SnugglyWhuggly said: People that are genuinely in love don't do this, so something tells me you either foresaw your relationship ending for whatever reason, or you get into relationships for reasons other than mutual feelings for one another (or perhaps both). I think you know nothing about relationships. Just because its "genuine love", doesn't mean it can last forever. Go figure. |
SnugglyWhuggly said: The question here is, do you really even have anyone to "confess" to? Yeah, to a ghost, I think. The title is quite clear. As I've said before "If you wanna troll or act foolish, kindly get out." |
| If you're upset about it, then maybe jumping back into a relationship isn't the best idea. I'd try to surround myself with lots of friends first. Best of luck to ya! |
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| anything that touch the heart is always something personally meaningful. |
| "The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply." - Unknown |
CandleJakk said: SnugglyWhuggly said: People that are genuinely in love don't do this, so something tells me you either foresaw your relationship ending for whatever reason, or you get into relationships for reasons other than mutual feelings for one another (or perhaps both). I think you know nothing about relationships. Just because its "genuine love", doesn't mean it can last forever. Go figure. Nothing lasts forever, but I don't often see people in love getting into relationships ASAP after getting their "hearts broken". I don't think you know anything about how genuine relationships work, to be blunt. CandleJakk said: SnugglyWhuggly said: The question here is, do you really even have anyone to "confess" to? Yeah, to a ghost, I think. The title is quite clear. As I've said before "If you wanna troll or act foolish, kindly get out." Says the guy who always made troll threads. It was an honest question, you say you've recently come out of a relationship, and you're asking for advice on "how to confess". You don't say whether you have your eyes set on someone, or if you're just asking for general advice. When you're being vague, expect people to ask for more details. Onii-chan said: @SnugglyWhuggly There's a chance that he may get hurt badly and seek for replacement to forget his bitter sadness. Sometimes, people who suffer emotionally distressed can't think straight. Yeah, I can understand that, but rushing into a relationship immediately after having one ending usually just results in a "relationship" that's over before it's even begun. We all have those periods where we're "unstable" emotionally, but making any decisions while you're in that state can result in regrets later, though I realize it isn't always a "concious" decision so to speak when you're not thinking clearly. |
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| Try to figure at first what she likes to do and find a way to approach her using that :O |
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| Just be forward with it. Hey! I like you and I think you're girl. Will you go out with me? That's all there is to it, really. |
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TheBrainintheJar said: Just be forward with it. Hey! I like you and I think you're girl. Will you go out with me? That's all there is to it, really. Haha, only in today's society do you have to do this. |
| Now I see the secret of the making of the best persons. It is to grow in the open air and to eat and sleep with the earth. -Walt Whitman A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects. -Robert A. Heinlein |
Usagi said: Just don't put the ring in food. It won't be very romantic if she eats the ring and you have to dig through her poop until you find it. I'm laughing because my dad put the ring in food to ask my mom to marry him. She accepted, so it might work. |
Ｓｗｅｅｔ♥I guess, as long as I have life, all I can do is fight with all my might. |
| Propose for what exacty if your relationship has ended? |
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