Our Hotwives

A broad general question for husbands, wives, and wannabes.

Prior to entering this lifestyle, how did you respond the first time another man asked your wife out on a date?

Positive, negative, supportive, happy, how did the conversation go once the wife was asked out on a date?

Early, in my marriage my wife and I had already discussed and agreed to trying the Hotwife lifestyle.

She worked out at a different gym than I did, and one day she came home beaming with excitement and confidence how a man asked her out for a date from her gym. My wife’s positive energy was contagious and I immediately was very supportive an interested in finding out more of her being asked out. She was very appreciative that I was happy for her and not the least bit jealous.

She told me all about the man who asked her out and how she accepted his offer. In minutes my wife and I were in bed together having extremely passionate sex and this was the start of our Hotwife lifestyle.

Her date with her gym partner went very well.

Please, share your experience the first time your wife was asked out by another man.

the very first time some guy asked my wife to go on a date she rejected the advance, she wasn't ready and the guy really wasn't attractive to her. when she told me about the guy trying to get her to go out with him we had a good laugh about it and we agreed that if she was to start dating the guy would have to be more attractive to her.

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Sun Dec 08, 2024 6:01 am

A broad general question for husbands, wives, and wannabes.

Prior to entering this lifestyle, how did you respond the first time another man asked your wife out on a date?

Positive, negative, supportive, happy, how did the conversation go once the wife was asked out on a date?

Early, in my marriage my wife and I had already discussed and agreed to trying the Hotwife lifestyle.

She worked out at a different gym than I did, and one day she came home beaming with excitement and confidence how a man asked her out for a date from her gym. My wife’s positive energy was contagious and I immediately was very supportive an interested in finding out more of her being asked out. She was very appreciative that I was happy for her and not the least bit jealous.

She told me all about the man who asked her out and how she accepted his offer. In minutes my wife and I were in bed together having extremely passionate sex and this was the start of our Hotwife lifestyle.

Her date with her gym partner went very well.

Please, share your experience the first time your wife was asked out by another man.

For me the first time was so thrilling! My heart nearly exploded the first time and my excitement level was super high until i eventually went to sleep that night. I just kept imagining his cock thrusting in and out of her

Whenever we were looking for a new person to have sex with my wife (hotwife) I usually made the first contact. It may not be "cool", but we felt safer that way. For the last number of years she has had the same two men, regulars, to have sex with. One is a masseur and I still make the arrangements with him, and I drive her to and from though I never am present. They always end up with intercourse. With the other guy, after the first couple of times they now make their own dates - sometimes him, sometimes her, and most times at our place. I still get turned on when I am told they are going to get together. After the first few MFMs I am no longer present, but I get all the details later.

Wesley Hudson Valley wrote: ↑

Sun Dec 08, 2024 6:01 am

A broad general question for husbands, wives, and wannabes.

Prior to entering this lifestyle, how did you respond the first time another man asked your wife out on a date?

Positive, negative, supportive, happy, how did the conversation go once the wife was asked out on a date?

Early, in my marriage my wife and I had already discussed and agreed to trying the Hotwife lifestyle.

She worked out at a different gym than I did, and one day she came home beaming with excitement and confidence how a man asked her out for a date from her gym. My wife’s positive energy was contagious and I immediately was very supportive an interested in finding out more of her being asked out. She was very appreciative that I was happy for her and not the least bit jealous.

She told me all about the man who asked her out and how she accepted his offer. In minutes my wife and I were in bed together having extremely passionate sex and this was the start of our Hotwife lifestyle.

Her date with her gym partner went very well.

Please, share your experience the first time your wife was asked out by another man.

WHV
- AND!!!!??
- Did they become workout partners?
- Did they go out more than once?
- Did it go further than just a 'date'?

WHV
- AND!!!!??
- Did they become workout partners?
- Did they go out more than once?
- Did it go further than just a 'date'?

First I will answer your questions:

Yes they became workout partners
Yes they went out on multiple dates
Yes they had sex multiple times

If my wife and I happened to spending together, often she would get a text then proudly and enthusiastically boast, “just who got a date offer” my enthusiastic response would be I hope you text back yes. Her motto was “I am married yet dating others”, made her very popular

She never goes out on a date alone. However it happens a lot that we go out together and we meet guys at a bar. If my wife is interested in them having sex with her she flirts. At some point the conversation steers toward sex and her being a Hotwife (most of the time I have to explain what that is). I'm the one that usually brings up about them having sex with her, if they want then I tell them what we want including that I watch. There are times the guy will tell my wife that he wants to take her someplace private for sex, she tells them that it is with me watching or nothing. I smile because she wants me to always watch, she says there is a whole lot of excitement for her to look over while some guy is fucking her and see me masturbating.

My wife is the initiator when it comes to meeting men she dates. I have enjoyed being with her when she strikes up a conversation with a man and flirts with him.

The first time my wife told her suitor that she was married, but otherwise would go out with him in a heartbeat. She really talked up to him how flattering he was, etc. She came home and told me all about it and we ended up fucking like crazy. Over the next few days, we talked about it and decided she should go for it with this guy, but to act like she was cheating. She apologized for turning him down and said she had given it a lot of thought and that she really wanted to go out with him. Of course, he was very willing and she made a big deal about keeping it secret. he ended up dating her and fucking her for several months before she decided to cool it. She said the thought of fucking married pussy drove this guy wild.

Grizzly gets very protective and jealous especially if it’s someone we know on a personal level. Because we don’t want close to home, however if we are in the lifestyle company it turns him on like crazy!

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rypmar7 wrote: ↑

Sat Dec 14, 2024 11:00 am

The first time my wife told her suitor that she was married, but otherwise would go out with him in a heartbeat. She really talked up to him how flattering he was, etc. She came home and told me all about it and we ended up fucking like crazy. Over the next few days, we talked about it and decided she should go for it with this guy, but to act like she was cheating. She apologized for turning him down and said she had given it a lot of thought and that she really wanted to go out with him. Of course, he was very willing and she made a big deal about keeping it secret. he ended up dating her and fucking her for several months before she decided to cool it. She said the thought of fucking married pussy drove this guy wild.

Hot story. Was that your/her first step into hotwifing? Had you guys discussed it before?

How old was she then? How old was he?.Where and how did they meet? Colleagues? Socially knew each other?

Did they get to barebacking? Anal

Thanks.

We had discussed it during the holidays one year and then the next spring we decided to go for it. My wife hooked up with a mutual friend, then another later in the year and then a third at the end of the year. She decided it was time to give it a rest with friends. When we traveled out of town, she got lucky once or twice. The guy who asked her out did not know about any of this. The company she worked for provided services to the place he worked, so they had met, had a lot of contact and flirted a lot. His asking her out was totally unexpected, since he knew she was married and had no idea she was playing. She came home beaming and you saw where it led.

During their six month "affair" for lack of a better word, they did do bareback all the time, but never made it as far as anal. She was early forties at the time and he was about ten years younger. I did get the chance to watch them together in a bar from a distance and he was very good looking and she was clearly smitten with him. It was incredibly hot just watching them interact in public, appearing to be boyfriend and girlfriend to all others. The whole experience exposed me to a new intimate aspect of my wife. She shared everything with my like I was one of her horny girlfriends instead of her husband. I think that intimacy convinced us both that there was no going back.

“The whole experience exposed me to a new intimate aspect of my wife. She shared everything with my like I was one of her horny girlfriends instead of her husband. I think that intimacy convinced us both that there was no going back.”

I think this is us. I know I can relate, not sure if she shares like I’m one of her horny girlfriends or, as I like to put it, I’m her wingman. Either way, the intimacy is really nice.

rypmar7 wrote: ↑

Tue Dec 17, 2024 5:48 am

We had discussed it during the holidays one year and then the next spring we decided to go for it. My wife hooked up with a mutual friend, then another later in the year and then a third at the end of the year. She decided it was time to give it a rest with friends. When we traveled out of town, she got lucky once or twice. The guy who asked her out did not know about any of this. The company she worked for provided services to the place he worked, so they had met, had a lot of contact and flirted a lot. His asking her out was totally unexpected, since he knew she was married and had no idea she was playing. She came home beaming and you saw where it led.

During their six month "affair" for lack of a better word, they did do bareback all the time, but never made it as far as anal. She was early forties at the time and he was about ten years younger. I did get the chance to watch them together in a bar from a distance and he was very good looking and she was clearly smitten with him. It was incredibly hot just watching them interact in public, appearing to be boyfriend and girlfriend to all others. The whole experience exposed me to a new intimate aspect of my wife. She shared everything with my like I was one of her horny girlfriends instead of her husband. I think that intimacy convinced us both that there was no going back.

Thanks Rypmar.

I love that early 40s and early 30 dynamic. The guy being 10-20 yrs junior is very hot for me.. Meeting at work is exciting too.. Like the good old days!
The guy must have been seventh heaven! His dream came true! A 10 yr senior married woman!

sandy691196 wrote: ↑

Tue Dec 17, 2024 9:44 am

rypmar7 wrote: ↑

Tue Dec 17, 2024 5:48 am

We had discussed it during the holidays one year and then the next spring we decided to go for it. My wife hooked up with a mutual friend, then another later in the year and then a third at the end of the year. She decided it was time to give it a rest with friends. When we traveled out of town, she got lucky once or twice. The guy who asked her out did not know about any of this. The company she worked for provided services to the place he worked, so they had met, had a lot of contact and flirted a lot. His asking her out was totally unexpected, since he knew she was married and had no idea she was playing. She came home beaming and you saw where it led.

During their six month "affair" for lack of a better word, they did do bareback all the time, but never made it as far as anal. She was early forties at the time and he was about ten years younger. I did get the chance to watch them together in a bar from a distance and he was very good looking and she was clearly smitten with him. It was incredibly hot just watching them interact in public, appearing to be boyfriend and girlfriend to all others. The whole experience exposed me to a new intimate aspect of my wife. She shared everything with my like I was one of her horny girlfriends instead of her husband. I think that intimacy convinced us both that there was no going back.

Thanks Rypmar.

I love that early 40s and early 30 dynamic. The guy being 10-20 yrs junior is very hot for me.. Meeting at work is exciting too.. Like the good old days!
The guy must have been seventh heaven! His dream came true! A 10 yr senior married woman!

I am not sure that he knew she was older. She looked young for her age, so he may have thought she was a little older, but definitely he loved it. He started getting to attached to her in the end and she had to break it off. He never caused any trouble about it fortunately.

discreetlys husband wrote: ↑

Tue Dec 17, 2024 7:03 am

“The whole experience exposed me to a new intimate aspect of my wife. She shared everything with my like I was one of her horny girlfriends instead of her husband. I think that intimacy convinced us both that there was no going back.”

I think this is us. I know I can relate, not sure if she shares like I’m one of her horny girlfriends or, as I like to put it, I’m her wingman. Either way, the intimacy is really nice.

DH
- Does this mean some of her GF's are aware of her........."extracurriculars" .

No, her girlfriends do not know. We would love to find some friends that share our hobbies.

I’m proud of our relationship, wouldn’t bother me if some knew.

But our current friends and family are definitely not an option.

We were pass the point of talking about her being a Hot Girlfriend at the time and wanted to move into real. We joined an adult site to see interest and who we could find. After a couple of weeks we chatted with a guy. Saw what he looked like and setup a meet.

Ended up meeting at a hotel lounge for drinks. Good conversation turned to more risque talk. When we all were out of words my wife said "better to strike while the iron is hot." I tried to get a room but they were booked for a wedding. Damn, ok so I started calling around. Turns out, there's also a convention in town!

Got an answer from a Hilton some 20 minutes away that had a few rooms left. As we're about to drive off to the destination hotel my wife says the guy fingered her while I was on the phone. Right in the hallway next to the lobby too! I checked with my own fingers and she was soaked! Now the goal to get a room was on!

As we arrived and walked into the lobby, the place was packed. Oregon was in town to play USC in football and as it happens, this was the Oregon hotel. It's finally my turn at the counter. I ask for a room and the desk clerk works her pc and hmmms. I mention, "not good? I called earlier." Off to the side there's some Hilton Club member yelling at her coworker, wanting a room, I'm a whatever club member. She looks over at what's unfolding, then focuses on her pc and says "I have a room for you." I'm surprised as hell and excited. She does all the usuals and comes out to talk to me and point out the elevators. The yelling guy is now making a full on scene. I looked at the girl and tipped her. She tried to deny it but I looked at her and nodded. I knew what she did.

Back at the fountain, my wife is holding hands with the guy. Bit of kissing. It tell them let's get out of this chaos! We have a good laugh in the elevator about stealing the room out from Mr Yelly Pants. The room had two queen beds. We decided to freshen up one at a time. I went last and came out to them making out on one of the beds! Pics and video was ok with everyone so I quickly dug out my equipment.

Gonna skip the details but clothes flew off and a long oral session by my wife on him ensued. She climbed up on him with just her panties on. There were whispers by her that he couldn’t have her bare. Safe sex was spoken about in chat. He kept rubbing his cock on her which got her to remove her panties. Again, he continued rubbing until an audible moan was heard. He was inside her. She never protested but did look at me. I was too much in lust to have her stop. She had a look of guilt, sorta “I’m sorry... but it feels too good” kind of look. It was a show stopper for me and I let her go.

He proceeded to put in her many positions. Most to give me a great view. They were at it for about and hour and a half before he finished on her stomach. After wishing him well and seeing him off, I was all over her. We fucked off and on throughout the night. Next morning we left and did the walk of shame with the same clothes we checked in with. And that, was the first time for us.

I take it as a compliment when a dude hits on my wife. She loves the attention.

It was so hot I couldn't imagine her not going. She let me know she wanted to go by about fucking my brains out. She really enjoyed the way she could gain full control of me if she had my dick in her hand or pussy or mouth. It was an old boyfriend of hers and it was also the one that taught her about being submissive and being shared with his friends. It was early in our marriage and she was still learning what a hotwife was all about. When he asked her out and I helped to dress her like a pure slut for the date she finally got the big picture. She came home well fucked by him and his friends at the party he took her to. The sex when she got home was incredible and led to more dates with more men.

It doesn't bother me if it is something she wants to do. She has gone on dates with a few of my friends, co workers and just recently a stranger she met at the mall.

Welcome to the forum cuckhus715.

Great way to look at it…

Post by Tank Turner » Thu Dec 19, 2024 9:29 am

I take it as a compliment when a dude hits on my wife. She loves the attention.